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Marni Kinrys - "Confidence Hacks"[edit | edit source]

  1. Use slow, comfortable movements: Assertive men move in a relaxed manner, which signals security and control.
  2. Speak slowly with a downward inflection: Assertive men speak at a relaxed pace, use pauses between words, and employ a downward inflection in their speech, which portrays confidence and power.
  3. Utilize non-reaction seeking body language: This means not constantly checking and analyzing the reactions of the person you're communicating with, which can signal insecurity. Assertive men express themselves candidly without seeking validation.
  4. Maintain eye contact: Being able to hold eye contact, especially in tense situations, shows confidence and assertiveness.
  5. Use high conviction words: Assertive men use words that show certainty and conviction, such as "I will" instead of "I hope to".
  6. Assume the leadership role: Women expect men to lead, and the ability to do so signals assertiveness and is highly attractive to women.