Saving a Low Sex Marriage - A Man's Guide to Dread, Seduction, and the Long Game
Saving a Low Sex Marriage - A Man's Guide To Dread, Seduction, and the Long Game is a book by bluepillprofessor as a guide to re-engage a man's wife's sexuality in a sexless marriage.
Initial Reddit Post[edit | edit source]
Bluepillprofessor initially posted an initial draft of the book's main content[1] to the Married Red Pill subreddit. It outlines twelve increasing levels of Dread to be employed, a minimum of one month each, to re-engage with your wife in a sexless marriage.
The 12 Levels of Dread[edit | edit source]
1. Your Life[edit | edit source]
Learn to recognize and pass shit tests.
Readings: Married Man's Sex Life Primer, No More Mr. Nice Guy
2. The Plan[edit | edit source]
Make a plan of improvement (Male Action Plan) and implement it.
Readings: The Book of Pook, The Mindful Attraction Plan
3. Your Great Mission[edit | edit source]
Get busy building a life apart from your wife.
Reading: When I Say No I Feel Guilty
4. Options and Consequences[edit | edit source]
Withholding time and attention from your wife. Escalating to withholding of affection and presence only if necessary.
Readings: The Rational Male, How To Win Friends and Influence People
5. The Hot Guy[edit | edit source]
Upgrade your wardrobe.
Readings: The Way of the Superior Male, The Art of Seduction
6. Practice[edit | edit source]
Study pickup artistry. Actively seduce your wife.
Readings: The Natural, Bang: The Pickup Bible
7. The Pickup Artist[edit | edit source]
Become a student of Pickup Artistry, begin practicing your cold approaches and number closes.
Readings: Day Bang: How to Pick Up Girls during the day, & Real Secrets of PUA: A strategy that works
8. Demonstrations[edit | edit source]
Show your wife that you are capable of talking to pretty girls in public.
Readings: The Sex God Method, The Ironwood Collection of Alpha Moves
9. The Soft Ultimatum[edit | edit source]
After repeated sexual denials, tell your wife, "I need a wife who doesn't turn me down for sex most of the time, and if not, we are not going to be able to stay married".
Readings: The 48 Laws of Power, The Art of War
10. The Hard Ultimatum[edit | edit source]
"You have a simple choice to make. Fuck me...or fuck you." Tell your wife how it is going to be, or else you are leaving and will no longer be bound by the marital contract. Have divorce papers drawn up and ready to sign.
Readings: The Meditations of Marcus Aralias
11. The Hail Mary Pass (alternate to #10)[edit | edit source]
Get a girlfriend or mistress and start having sex like you were meant to have.
Readings: The Bible
12. The Nuclear Option[edit | edit source]
TELL your wife that you have a girlfriend/mistress, so you won't be bothering her for sex any longer unless she wants it (because you would never deny your wife something she wants and needs).
Alternate Readings from the Reddit Post[edit | edit source]
Bluepillprofessor provided alternate readings (mostly an alternate schedule of readings) in his Reddit post:
- The sidebar on The Red Pill subreddit, Married Man's Sex Life by Athol Kay, No More Mr. Nice Guy by Robert Glover, When I Say No I Feel Guilty, The Book of Pook
- The Mindful Attraction Plan by Athol Kay
- The Way of the Superior Male by David Dieda, The Art of Seduction by Robert Green
- The Ironwood Collection of Alpha Moves by Ian Ironwood
- The Rational Male by Rollo Tomassi
- Bang by RooshV, Day Bang by RooshV
- The Natural by Richard Ruina
- Models: Attracting Women Through Honesty by Mark Manson, another PUA book
- (none)
- The Art of War, The 48 Laws of Power
- The Bible
- The Joy of Sex
- ↑ The 12 Step Plan of Dread: Book excerpt from my work in progress: "A Man's Guide To Turning Around a Low Sex Marriage (X-Post from TRP) https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/2lpafb/the_12_step_plan_of_dread_book_excerpt_from_my/