Iron Rules of Tomassi
I. Frame is everything[1]
“Frame is everything. Always be aware of the subconscious balance of whose frame in which you are operating. Always control the Frame, but resist giving the impression that you are.”
II. Never reveal your notch count[2]
“Never, under pain of death, honestly or dishonestly reveal the number of women you’ve slept with or explain any detail of your sexual experiences with them to a current lover.”
III. The sex is never worth the wait[3]
"Any woman who makes you wait for sex, or by her actions implies she is making you wait for sex; the sex is NEVER worth the wait.”
IV. No shacking up before marriage[4]
“Never under any circumstance live with a woman you aren’t married to or are not planning to marry in within 6 months.”
V. Don't rely on her for birth control[5]
“Never allow a woman to be in control of the birth.”
VI. Women and men love differently[6]
“Women are fundamentally incapable of loving a man in the way that a man expects to be loved by a woman.”
VII. Spend your time creating new relationships, not digging through the trash[7]
“It is always time and effort better spent developing relations with new, fresh, prospective women than it will ever be in attempting to reconstruct a failed relationship.”
VIII. Always let a woman figure out why she won’t fuck you, never do it for her[8]
“Always let a woman figure out why she won’t fuck you, never do it for her.”
IX. Never self-deprecate
Never seriously self-deprecate with a woman you intend to be intimate with.
- ↑ The Rational Male - Frame https://therationalmale.com/2011/10/12/frame/
- ↑ The Rational Male - “You’ve been with how many girls?!” https://therationalmale.com/2011/11/22/youve-been-with-how-many-girls/
- ↑ The Rational Male - Wait For It? https://therationalmale.com/2011/09/23/wait-for-it/
- ↑ The Rational Male - Shacking Up https://therationalmale.com/2011/10/06/shacking-up/
- ↑ The Rational Male - Professional Mothers https://therationalmale.com/2011/12/06/professional-mothers/
- ↑ The Rational Male - Women in Love https://therationalmale.com/2011/12/27/women-in-love/
- ↑ The Rational Male - Rooting Through Garbage https://therationalmale.com/2011/09/08/rooting-through-garbage/
- ↑ The Rational Male - Just Be Yourself https://therationalmale.com/2012/01/13/just-be-yourself/