Editing Breaking Free Activities (section)

=== Breaking Free: Activity #4 - Attachments for Approval Seeking ===
<blockquote>I’ve taken surveys in several No More Mr. Nice Guy! groups asking the members about the attachments they use to try to get external approval. The following are just a few of the responses. Look over the list. Note any of the ways in which you seek approval. Add to the list any behaviors that are uniquely you. Write down examples of each. Ask others for feedback about the ways in which they see you seeking approval. 

• Having one’s hair just right. 

• Being smart. 

• Having a pleasant, non-threatening voice. 

• Looking unselfish. 

• Being different from other men. 

• Staying sober. 

• Being in good shape. 

• Being a great dancer. 

• Being a good lover. 

• Never getting angry. 

• Making other people happy. 

• Being a good worker. 

• Having a clean car. 

• Dressing well. 

• Being nice. 

• Respecting women. 

• Never offending anyone. 

• Looking like a good father</blockquote>