Editing No More Mr. Nice Guy (book) (section)

== "Nice Guy Syndrome" ==
"The Nice Guy Syndrome" revolves around a shared issue that several men face in their relationships and personal lives. They all describe themselves as "nice guys" and believe that if they act "good" and do everything "right," they will be loved, have their needs met, and live a problem-free life. However, their lives don't turn out as they expect, often leading to unmet needs and unfulfilled relationships.

The chapter opens with Jason, a chiropractor who prides himself on being a nice guy and avoiding conflict at all costs. Despite his efforts to be a good husband and father, he feels underappreciated and unloved by his wife, Heather.

Various other men are introduced, including Omar, who struggles to connect emotionally despite his efforts to please his girlfriend; Todd, who can't understand why his respect and kindness towards women don't lead to romantic relationships; Bill, who constantly gives but rarely receives; Gary, who endures his wife's verbal abuse without complaint; Rick, a gay man trying to help his alcoholic partner; Lyle, a religious man battling sexual compulsions, and Jose, who feels trapped in a relationship with a needy partner.

Despite their efforts to be the 'Nice Guys', these men face dissatisfaction and disappointment in their relationships and personal lives. Their shared struggle, referred to as the "Nice Guy Syndrome," is the tendency to hide their flaws and feelings, do what they believe others want them to do, and sacrifice their needs in an attempt to avoid conflict and earn approval and love. The chapter highlights the pervasiveness of this syndrome and its detrimental effects.